Message stuck in outbox as "deferred"

I tried sending a text with the business card attachment in VCF format to a colleague, but it would appear he has an iPhone so he hasn't had the text and I still have a message shown in my outbox as "deferred" that I cannot open, delete or anything with.

Anyone got any ideas as how to get rid of it? 

Thanks for your info....

I need some TESTERS for a possible solution to this problem!

My phone magically alllows me to PRESS for the the delete option on my DEFERRED outbox messages now. And im happy to say i have deleted them ALL with no problem. Problem is, I DONT KNO WHAT I DID THAT FIXED IT! hajahjahja

Following steps...

go into MESSAGING --> OPTIONS --> SETTINGS --> OTHER --> change SHOW MESSAGES IN GROUPS to "YES" and then back to "NO" --> EXIT and try deleting your OUTBOX MESSAGES

if it doesnt work try changing it to "YES" view your inbox to confirm it has grouped the text and then try deleting OUTBOX deferred text again. (PRESS and HOLD is not necessary when deleting OUTBOX deferred messages. I found that simple PRESSING *selecting* the message pops up the option to delete or send to DRAFTS)

Please reply back with any input or corrections needed.